The 20-minute lag
Stretch receptors in the stomach and gut hormones like CCK and GLP-1 need time to register a meal. Eating quickly means you can finish far more than you need before the signal arrives.
Hunger vs appetite
Physical hunger builds gradually and is satisfied by any food. Appetite is triggered by sight, smell, stress or boredom and is specific โ it wants that particular thing. Naming which one you're feeling changes the choice.
Simple practices
Put the fork down between bites, eat without a screen for one meal a day, and pause halfway through to rate your fullness from one to ten. These reliably reduce intake without restriction.